Sex is about being human not your age. I think the media and the general narrative has always been we don't want to think about anyone over 50 having sex. I think it's ridiculous and I hope it changes. Why we are changing so many other things, concerned about other feelings, but not about this, it's is a mystery to me.

I think if you want to have a real relationship with anyone, you have to honest. If this is a part of you, your partner has to accept it. You may loose some people, but if they don't accept this part of you, are they worth keeping in your life?